Why Do Brides Stand on the Left? The Surprisingly Bold History Behind the Tradition

Ever notice that brides traditionally stand on the left side of the aisle? It’s one of those small wedding details that almost everyone follows — but few ever question. So, why the left side? As with many wedding traditions, the answer goes way back… and it’s a little more dramatic than you might expect.

A Sword-Ready Groom

This tradition actually has roots in medieval times, when grooms needed to keep their right hand free — to wield a sword.

Yes, really.

Back then, weddings were less about romance and more about deals, dowries, and sometimes outright drama. Grooms stood with the bride on their left so they could defend her — or themselves — from rival suitors, disapproving families, or anyone who might try to interrupt the ceremony. Keeping the right hand free for battle was a practical (and slightly wild) move.

A Symbol of Protection

Over time, the tradition took on a more symbolic meaning. Standing to the bride’s right became a gesture of protection and strength — even if no sword was involved. The groom's role was to “guard” the bride, while the left side became her place of honor.

A Modern Twist

Of course, today, couples stand wherever they like. Some switch sides for aesthetic reasons, personal preference, or symmetry with their venue. Same-sex couples often reimagine this tradition entirely — standing wherever feels best for them.

That’s what makes it beautiful: even the oldest traditions can evolve into something that feels personal and intentional.

So, Do You Have to Stand on the Left?

Not at all. It’s your day — you can stand wherever your heart says “yes.”

And just like where you stand, your flowers are a reflection of your story, too.

Whether you’re going full-on traditional or rewriting every rule, we’re here to help your wedding florals feel completely and unapologetically you. Let us know how you want to show up on your big day, and we’ll craft something just as meaningful — with or without the swords.

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