Do Bridesmaids Need to Carry Flowers? What You Need to Know

If you’re planning your wedding and starting to think about flowers, you might be wondering: Do bridesmaids need to carry flowers? The short answer: They usually do—but it’s completely up to you.

Traditionally, bridesmaids carry smaller versions of the bride’s bouquet. But as more couples personalize their wedding day to match their style, budget, and values, some are skipping the bouquet altogether or opting for unique alternatives. So let’s explore the history, modern options, and how to choose what’s right for your big day.

The Tradition of Bridesmaids Carrying Flowers

Historically, bridesmaids held flowers to protect the bride and ward off bad energy—a custom that evolved into a design choice over time. Today, bridesmaid bouquets:

  • Add color and texture to your ceremony and photos
  • Create visual harmony between the bridal party and overall décor
  • Offer something for bridesmaids to hold while walking down the aisle
  • Serve as a symbol of support and connection to the couple

For many couples, bridesmaid flowers are still an important part of the day. But there’s no rule that says you must include them.

Modern Alternatives to Bridesmaid Bouquets

If you want something a little different—or a little more budget-conscious—there are creative floral alternatives to consider:

  1. Single-Stem Flowers - Let each bridesmaid carry one dramatic bloom—like a rose, protea, or anemone—for a minimalist, editorial look.
  2. Floral Hoops or Wands - Perfect for boho or whimsical weddings, these easy-to-hold arrangements are a fun departure from tradition.
  3. Flower Crowns or Hair Blooms - Incorporate flowers into your bridal party’s hairstyle instead of having them hold anything.
  4. Corsages or Wristlets - Elegant, wearable, and perfect for keeping hands free—especially great for outdoor or destination weddings.
  5. No Flowers at All - Who says flowers are required? Statement earrings, matching scarves, fans, lanterns, or candles can make a strong visual impact.

Should Bridesmaids Still Carry Flowers?

That depends entirely on your style, priorities, and budget. Here are a few things to consider:

  • Budget: Bouquets add beauty, but they also add cost. If you’re watching your budget, consider smaller arrangements or single-stem options.
  • Photography: Bouquets help add visual cohesion and color to group photos.
  • Aesthetic: If flowers are a major part of your wedding design, including them in your bridal party might feel important.
  • Venue and Season: Outdoor or garden weddings may call for floral details, while modern or minimalist spaces might not need them.

At the end of the day, it’s your wedding—and there’s no “right” choice. Do what feels most like you.

Let Evans Flowers Help You Decide

At Evans Flowers, we work with couples across the North Shore and Greater Boston area to design wedding florals that reflect your style—whether that means full bridal party bouquets or fresh, creative alternatives.

Want to DIY your own flowers? We also offer custom floral kits for bridesmaids’ bouquets, complete with stems, tools, and expert guidance.

Whether you’re all-in on flowers or skipping them completely, our team is here to support your vision—bouquets or not.

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